Hello all.

I am curious if anyone has had an issue with a profile showing as active with out the account holder actually logging into the app or website.

A few months ago I met an amazing guy on a different dating app. As soon as we started talking I deleted the few chat apps i had at the time. None of which were Adam4Adam. I havent used that particular app in months prior to meeting him because i never cared for it.

Any time i have started talking to someone and think there may be a chance of it going any where I immediately delete any and all chat/dating apps. I have never actually deleted the account just simply delete the apps.

He receives a screenshot today of where my A4A account was active a week ago. I swear on everything that I havent been on the app.

I have been doing nothing be research since the issue arose and I'm finding out alot of stuff.

For example that it's very possible that by simply deleting an email can show an account to be active. I've even had a relative tell me they had a same issue as to where a website would show her as active just so that current active members could see more profiles even though some of those members may not truly be active.

I did download the app again and even had to reset my password just to log in. I have contacted A4A multiple times and they are only responding with change my password. Well I had to. I didnt have any messages, but who's to say if I really was cheating that i just dont keep the messages deleted.

I would be responding the same way he is and i totally understand it.

A4A hasnt responded to my last couple of emails and I'm stuck. I've went as far as to read their entire terms and conditions and seen where they state that they will use and change or share your profile as they wish.

I just need answers. I'm willing to fight for this relationship. I have nothing to hide. I even have him my ipad to use and left all my email and social media accounts logged in because I have nothing to hid.

Someone please help